I'm sure you can do better than you think you can

The most common way smart people prepare for an interview abroad is also the one that fails them most: they memorise answers.

It feels safe. It isn’t. The interviewer changes one word, asks a follow-up you didn’t script, and the whole rehearsed paragraph collapses — taking your confidence with it.

Rehearse the person, not the script

You are not going in to recite. You’re going in to have a conversation in which you happen to be the subject. So practise that:

• Tell the story of a project three different ways — for an engineer, for a manager, for someone outside your field.
• Get comfortable saying “good question — let me think for a second.” Silence is allowed. It reads as senior, not stuck.
• Practise recovering, not just performing. Lose the thread on purpose, then find it again. That skill is what actually carries you on the day.

I went into the interview without rehearsing answers. We rehearsed me. I got the offer the same week.

Why this works in a second language

Under pressure, in English, memory is the first thing to go. Flexibility is the last. When you’ve rehearsed yourself — your stories, your recoveries, your right to pause — you’re not depending on memory at all. You’re just talking.

And that’s the version of you they hired in their head before you left the room.